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He always joked with me and said, "There are a couple things I'd like to get off my bucket list before I turn 40." He kept saying, "Do you want to go to a swingers club? And I'd be like, "This is the coolest thing ever—this girl thinks I'm good-looking! And I said, "Oh no, we're here I want to see everything." We hadn't really mingled with anybody. I had to go to the bathroom and there was a naked woman standing in the bathroom fixing her hair.To put it simply, swingers are couples, usually who are in committed relationships or are married, who swap partners. Swingers clubs are usually labeled as “lifestyle clubs.” A simple Google search for “(your city) lifestyle club” or “(your city) swingers clubs” might just do the trick.
It was a Thursday morning and the workday was just ramping up when my friend Lisa Bonos described her dating fatigue.“I need to take a break, but ...” she said.“You don’t feel like you can,” I replied. I feel none of the self-consciousness I would if I’d been dating for myself. And that kept it confined to a certain portion of existence. New match, new note, someone super-liked Lisa and do I want to know who? And three days a week I’m home with my two small kids who also seem to think they deserve some of my attention. Mostly what I’m left thinking after this experiment is that dating is really hard. Which seems ironic because the convenience of dating apps should make it easier than ever. But presumably that’s how everyone feels after a few weeks (or months or years) on the apps. So that she can come back refreshed and ready to swipe.So, you finally realized everything you knew about being a swinger was a complete lie. And maybe after reading that story, you and your partner were like: “Well, since it’s not all old people with robes, watching you with somebody else might be kind of exciting...” Or maybe not.But either way, if you’re even remotely considering getting into it -- with your spouse, a significant other, or just that really cool friend with benefits you met on Tinder -- there are a few things you should know before you get started.We had been dating a few years and lived pretty far apart. Neither of us had ever been married or had children, and we met up and it kind of just clicked. We stayed long distance for quite a while and it was good, because I had something to look forward to. In the bar section, people were dancing more suggestively than they might in a regular club, but nothing crazy. Everybody always leaves you alone unless you want them not to.Then we started to get more serious.[Swinging] kind of started as a joke. I'm a corn-fed Midwestern girl." He had a friend who went with his girlfriend and they said it was a blast and they had this incredible sex for weeks and weeks afterwards. There are other people I've dated that if they would have said that I'd have been taking the first train out of town. As it was getting closer to his birthday, I was thinking to myself, . I knew if I told him I didn't want to be there, that he'd leave. The first night I had his hand like a vice and I said to him, "Do NOT let go of my hand." There was a sign before you walk through the door saying that if you're offended by public displays of nudity or sexuality, do not enter. There was a big dance club, a big bar, and a huge buffet set up. That first night we came in there were two guys sitting at the bar and there were two girls giving them blowjobs as we walked in. You might walk past someone who might smile at you and you can smile back and start talking. A girl would walk past me, and as heterosexual as I am, she'd say, "Man, you're beautiful" and lean over and give me this hot kiss. To go in the back area of the club you either have to be naked or wearing just a towel or girls can wear lingerie. There's a pool, there are hot tubs, there are private rooms if you want to go in. That first night, Eric said, "Do you want to just stay out here [in the bar]?
We went and sat down by a bar and after a while Eric said, "Well, do you just want to go in one of those rooms by ourselves? We went into a private room alone, had great sex, then went home that night and had great sex for the rest of the weekend. Once a girl came up to me and we started talking and I thought she was gorgeous. We've swapped between couples maybe four or five times since then.